Simply stated, your dharma is your purpose in this life.  Is it possible that some of us are here for little more than mere survival?  Are some people here to suffer so that others may be changed in their ways and learn to reach out to the suffering?  If that is the case, are those who suffer in this life really blessed by their work converting the masses, or are they simply living out the bitter fruit of some karmic retribution?  Hmmmm. 

Easy??  Talking...Sometimes my thoughts aren't quite formed before they are out of my mouth!  Every so often, I find myself talking a friend through a situation,  and there will be a point where I step back and hear what I am saying and it occurs to me; "I have never consciously thought this out before, but the messages coming out of me....well, I might actually believe they are true!" 
Perhaps this is not a good thing....speaking without thinking.   But most times, I feel like I am speaking from a place deep within that doesn't require conscious thought, merely opening a gate to information stored in that place of absolute truth within...that space within each of us. 

Difficult??  Listening.  I mean really listening.  The kind of intense listening that precludes thinking out a response, or interupting to make a point, or hearing what I want to instead of openly taking in what someone is saying without any judgement.  Many times my mind is jumping to conclusions before the other person has even gotten into a groove.  I am quick to interupt, and I don't like it. 
I would like to cultivate a sense of patience; of open-mided, open-hearted acceptance of what the other person is saying.  I want to genuinely take in the language, the emotion, the experience of this person--totally--and then chew on it before answering back.  Sometimes my passion gets in the way of that.